Salena Marie (and some bonus SSBBWage)

Salena

In the last week or so, a cute little curvy model has taken our niche of the porn world by storm (sorry, I'm too hungover to come up with a better phrase than that tired cliche... please forgive me). With two hardcore shoots on XLgirls and Plumperpass' "First Time Fatties" respectively in the last 6 days, Salena Marie clearly isn't fucking around. Well, she is fucking around from a literal standpoint, but you know what I mean. In any event, the fucking around has been recorded for all of us deviants, and it is beautiful to watch.

The pics are actually links in disguise. Click 'em...

With this pic, it's fun to click right on the pink part...

Our SSBBW love for this month comes from Brie and Valerie. It's a fun little clip that some will find more amusing than sexy, and it kind of illustrates some of my own personal issues with the really big girls in this biz. I'm more into fat women being sexy than fat women being fat, if that makes any sense.

It's basically two large woman sitting around saying "look how fat we are!" Not my fave, but I think both of these ladies are gorgeous, and I would've killed to be the meat on the sandwich.

Enjoy it, won't you?

Later, kids...

Alex Chance: An Adorable Young Lady with a "Problem Area"

Alex

When I surfed over to Plumperpass this morning (Good Morning, by the way), and saw adorable sexpot Alex Chance doing her hardcore thing again, I was reminded of an encounter I had with a beautiful black woman a while back.

This lady was, by anyone's standards, skinny and shapely, and she looked great in her tight jeans and button down blouse. But when the blouse came off, I got a pudgy little surprise: a cute tummy. She seemed a little self-conscious about it, but I had lots of fun with her extra curves.

Alex is one of those women who is more curvy than she may appear, and many women with her physique see that middle area as a "problem." To the lover of curves, this is not only not a problem, it can be a source of lots of enjoyment, and Plumperpass, who, in listening to their fans, has been stepping up their belly-play game as of late, does a great job of portraying the fun of being with a skinny girl with a little extra in this latest update.

I don't know Alex, but she may or may not see her delightful tummy as a "problem area." She may love it, or she may be working tirelessly at the gym this very moment, going that extra fake mile on the treadmill, or doing those ten extra crunches, trying to get rid of it.

That tummy, though it isn't the most beautiful thing about her (I would hold that that distinction would go to her adorable face or those fantastic breasts), but it may be her most marketable asset in her porn career, making her one of the more versatile performers. The tummy is the only reason anyone would consider her for a BBW site like Plumperpass. Slap a corset on her and she would outshine any chick on Bang Bros. or Brazzers.

Alex also has a great smile and a sexy voice (you can tell, I kinda like this girl), so I hope she sticks around for a while. We have a few more pics, but join Plumperpass today (right now, even) to see it all.

Later, kids...

Adele! (other stuff too)

Adele

Saw a great little spot about Grammy winning singer, and goddess, Adele in the Houston Chronicle, and I thought I'd share it with you lovely people. Among Joy Sewing's top reasons why Adele's style resonates with so many women: Body Confidence. LOVE that!

There's also a great video clip of the singer talking about her body image.

Congrats to this amazingly talented woman. We wish her continued success. And special thanks to the Shop Girl.

Other stuff...

Sandra (imagine one million exclamation points here)

Also, this may be our only post for February, so we'll give a nod to Black history...

Mz. Booty is black, and her butt is... historic...

... so it's fitting that we acknowledge her. Plus she's a Texas girl.

Did I ever tell you about the time she and I fucked? I won't go into that. Might get in trouble. Let's keep it between us, yes? (I'm just jiving... had to see if you fuckers were still paying attention ;) )

Later kids...

(SS)BBW Fascination

We've decided to dedicate one post a month to the beauty of the BBWs of the larger variety or "SSBBWs." I'm not crazy about the labels we bestow opon these ladies (don't even get me started), and I am not exactly sure about the weight demarcation line (it's not polite to mention a ladies weight anyway), but SSBBWs are the bigger girls; girls bigger than your typical BBW. They can be amazingly sexy in my humble opinion, and though I have limited hands-on experience with them, they can also be amazingly fun to fuck.

And fun to watch fuck as well...

We have an example of what is unfortunately a rarity in the world of porn: the hardcore SSBBW clip. To my dismay, most larger ladies prefer not to fuck on film. Most SSBBW sites are dedicated to modeling and feeding. I appreciate all forms of zaftig erotica, but I love to see a big women simply be sexy and get a good shagging, and the following clip offers just that.

Hope you enjoy.

I have no idea who she is... I was hoping you could tell me.

Of course, SSBBW love will be a constant presence here, but look for us to make a show of it once a month.

Later, kids.

BBWF's Championship Game pick, and a Fierce new Tumblr...

Geaux Tigers! (The ass is nice, but don't fail to give her props for taking the pic herself. You go girl)

Don't let the fact that I'm blogging about this confuse you. Like most people in this country, I barely give a shit about tonight's National Championship game (An ironic name for a game that only two regions of the country actually care about, no?). College football at the highest level has absolutely no idea how to organize post-season play, but LSU-Bama part deux should still be a compelling tilt. I admit it, I'll be watching.

I live on the gulf coast, and I have family and friends with Tiger ties (Ms. Chuck is a Louisiana girl), hence my pick: LSU 20, Bama 13. I also happen to think that the Bayou Bengals will field the better team tonight, and though I am a knowledgeable college football fan with credible reasons for my predictions, I will refer you to a true expert, Yahoo Sports' Pat Forde. He's picking LSU as well. See?

Zen

There is another blogger who doesn't know the meaning of the word appropriate. Funny, I thought I was the only one. Zen Fierce is a stunning BBW with a cute, quirky look that I think many of you will appreciate... and yeah, I realize that many of you will do your appreciating with your cock in your hand. I am cool with this.

Zen hasn't been on Tumblr very long, but I encourage all of you who tumbl to get to following her forthwith.

Below are some lovely images from the blog:

Enjoy the game, folks. Well, there will probably a lot of better shit you could be doing, so I won't sweat it if you sit this one out.

Later.

Movie Review: Shame (there's porn too)

The most revealing sequence in Steve McQueen’s painful yet masterful Shame is when Brandon (Michael Fassbender) takes a coworker out to a nice restaurant for a date. In this incredibly awkward encounter, Brandon discloses his disdain for marriage (he makes some very strong points, incidently) and firmly establishes himself as a weirdo who can’t quite communicate well with the other humans. He’s not completely unlovable, but his deep personal issues make it difficult to truly connect with people. He manages to get a second “date,” but it goes downhill quickly, and we get to see how severe Brandon’s intimacy issues really are.

Brandon is a sex addict, and McQueen’s triumph in this film is showing this condition to the audience in a way that effectively conveys both its ugliness and its heartache. This addiction can be just as debilitating as alcoholism and drug abuse in the way it compels its victims, but its stigma causes the average person to not even recognize it as a problem. Shame presents this issue in a surprisingly balanced way in that it shows the addict attempting to live normally, and it gives insight into the ultimate cause for his current struggles.

The film opens with (I say this so that you will be prepared) full frontal Fassbender. You see a completely naked Brandon walking around his apartment with his member flopping around in all its art house movie glory. If you’re in the theater with the right groups of people, you won’t hear any giggles or gasps, however. This is graphic, but it is far from gratuitous. Brandon’s cock is what the movie is about. This film is also about revealing a complete individual in all of his complexities, and the opening scenes set the stage for some of the other tough moments to come. In the first 15-20 minutes of the film, you will get a clear picture of the protagonist’s compulsion.

Brandon’s world is changed when his troubled younger sister Sissy (Carey Mulligan) comes to live with him. He finds himself forced to confront not only the shame associated with his addiction, but the troubled past that he and his sister evidently share. One of the more interesting aspects of this film is Brandon and Sissy’s strange relationship. It also may be a flaw in many people’s minds that this relationship did not play a more prominent role. I would be one of those people, as I think that this complicated relationship would have made for a fuller storyline and that it would have given Mulligan, who is outstanding in the film, more of a vehicle for her skills.

McQueen’s choice was to make the Fassbender’s character the focus of the film, and the actor does an amazing job of capturing the pain of sexual addiction. Even when Brandon isn’t speaking, his facial expressions speak volumes. I’m not qualified to make this assessment, but I believe Fassbender has given us one of the best acting performances of the year, and has possibly garnered his first Oscar nod. I hope the NC-17 rating does not hinder this.

Aside from Fassbender’s otherwordly performance is the way sex is depicted in the film. When I heard that this was a movie about sexual addiction and that it had the aforementioned rating, I thought it could turn into another oversexed indie movie (and a must see for a perv like me), but McQueen, Fassbender, and company manage to depict sex in a way that isn’t sexy at all, and it is a major win for this movie. There is a sequence where Brandon has sex with himself, and at least three others in one night, culminating in a threesome that would be the fantasy of most men, and it is possibly the most horrifying few minutes of any movie you’ll see this year. Sex by compulsion, sex as a sedative or an escape, can be painful, and Shame’s sex scenes convey this pain in a way that makes it anything but jerk off material. The anguish on Fassbender’s face as he’s banging one of the ladies in this threesome from behind, desperately attempting to stake his demon through the heart with every stroke, is something you will not soon forget.

I also loved this movie because I can truly identify with the main character. Obviously, a guy who runs a porn blog may have some semblance of a sex addiction. I don’t consider myself an addict (that’s what they all say, right?), and I definitely don’t have the deep-seated issues of Fassbender’s character, but sex, and the preoccupation with sex, is a big aspect of my life. Maybe I am an addict, but I am certainly much more functional than Brandon.

Another great aspect of the movie—and I haven’t seen this on every review and website—is that Carey Mulligan goes full frontal as well, and it is worth the price of admission. Carey is a breathtaking woman with or without her clothing, and I was pleasantly surprised that she has a little meat on the bone. Now I want to see her fuck. Shit… I’m starting to perv out here, so I better post some porn.

Anyway… see this movie. It’s entertaining, troubling, and thought-provoking. I’d love to hear what you might have thought of it as well.

Here's the porn I promised. Bettie Pumpkin doing some creative face sitting. Beautiful stuff...

It's Christmas time, so we also have a few shots from the adorable Beccabae, from her BigCuties site. Enjoy...

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you all. BBWF still loves you, and I promise more posts in the coming year...

Be blessed, kids...

Kyla is not a BBW... and other musings...

Actually, Kyla, you kinda are.

"I am not a BBW! I am a person. I am a fat activist. I use my body as a tool to help others. I use my clothing as a way to express my creativity. I do not care if you are sexually attracted to me. What I do to engage and resist is not meant to be your jerk off material.

I am not a fetish. I am not here for you to objectify and dehumanize. I am not a charity case. I am not grateful for your attention. I am not putting up with this.

I am more than my (fat) body. Treat me that way."

Kyla’s little rant (go to her tumblr for more on the topic) made me think a little bit… about my love for BBWs… and about the real reasons that I haven’t been blogging here lately…

If you read through Kyla’s Tumblr, you’ll notice that this is not a sexy fat girl trying to show her curves to the world (even though she is one of the most uniquely sexy women that I have ever laid eyes on). She is an activist for the plus-size woman, asserting herself as a voice for acceptance in a culture that effaces an entire segment of the population because of circumstances that they can’t control. The blog contains beautiful pictures, clever musings, and rhetoric like the eloquent post quoted above.

I can’t help but point out that it is hilarious that women think that they can post sexy photos of themselves all over the internet, and expect to not be objectified. I sympathize with Kyla in that she is receiving unwanted attention, but she seems to want to do that silly thing that women do when they seek to separate themselves from one of the very things that make them women. It may be disconcerting for some women to hear, and it certainly isn’t politically correct, but women are brilliant, strong, resourceful, and nurturing, and they can do virtually anything physically and mentally that any man can do, but they ARE sex objects. A woman’s sexuality, the curvature of her hips, the supple softness of her tits, the sweetness of her clit (wow, I’m getting nasty here) are just as much a part of her being as her intelligence.

Ladies, you are never going to escape this. I am not some date rape douche bag who, after forcing himself on some woman, claims that, by her low cut dress, and alluring eyes, she was “asking for it.” I am simply saying that a woman’s sex is part of her power. God put it there, and it is just as beautiful and good as all of the other qualities. I know that this is true because, for all the naked pics and hardcore vids that you see posted here, in my opinion, a woman is never sexier that when she is fully clothed and speaking her mind. And, as a practical matter, taking pics of yourself in cute and sometimes very sexy outfits is no way to avoid the eye of internet pervs. You do realize you putting the pics on the internet, right? Once they’re on here, you can’t tell us what to do with them.

For the record, I have never used Kyla’s pics as “jerkoff material,” and I never will. I was shaken by reading her post more than any other “I am not an object” post that I’ve seen before. Like Kyla, I am an activist for plus size women as well. The only difference is that I also have a pervy dark passenger who rides with me. In the early days of this blog, I thought that I was doing something positive for all larger ladies. Posts like Kyla’s open my eyes to the inescapable reality that more women see guys like me and blogs like this as part of the problem. Just like women can’t escape the ubiquitous power of their sexuality (regardless of their size), blogs like this can’t escape the fact that, even if fetishization isn’t the goal, it is always… always… the inevitable result.

I am NOT a person who fetishizes the bodies of fat women. Actually, I am completely against it. I find all types of women, women of all races, sizes, and backgrounds, attractive, and I have the eclectic sexual history to back it up. I am now married to a beautiful plus size woman who, in my eyes, is the most beautiful woman on Earth. I didn’t choose her because she was fat. I chose her because I think she is the best thing that could ever happen to me. I worship her curves because I worship HER. I started the blog because I wanted to use my love of porn as a way to show that fat women could be as sexy as all other women. I (mistakenly) saw myself as creating a haven of acceptance for big women, but I now understand that the blog will always appear to characterize BBWs as the object of a fetish, and there is no way to fully escape that. Even the very name of this blog fetishizes these women. Through posting about bigger ladies who are not in porn here on this blog, I have perpetuated the notion that fat women are “charity cases” or that they should be grateful for any available objectification, and Kyla is right in that regard. I actually want the same things as Kyla (in addition to wanting to see fat girls naked), and this blog does nothing to make those things happen.

Another particularly powerful quote from the blog:

“You wanting to stick your dick in a fat chick doesn’t end our oppression”

The reality that Kyla ignores, at least in the “I am not a BBW” post, is that objectification is part of acceptance. I remember a post-coital moment with a redhead from my past that shall not be named where I walked naked to the bathroom, and heard her voice say “such a beautiful ass!” In that moment, I smiled brightly, and I felt accepted. Just a cute, flirty comment about my booty (which is quite lovely, btw) made me walk with my head up high for days afterward. My girl affirming my sexiness affirmed ME in many ways, and this is what “fetish” blogs like this do for big women. Just like the redhead accepted for my intelligence, my sense of humor, and my passion for writing and literature in addition to my sweet ass, a curve perv’s adulation of a BBW for her sexiness is, in most instances, a symptom of his acceptance of all of her other attributes, and not a fetish. Speaking for myself, even though I post pics of women in sexy situations, I am well aware that their bodies are not all that they have to offer.

The problem, as Kyla’s post so aptly illustrates, is that naked pics do nothing to help correct the misconception. The objectification of BBWs is a part of their overall acceptance, but there are so many other areas in which these women are, to use Kyla’s word, “oppressed.” A woman who doesn’t fit the standard of beauty established in our society (and a man for that matter… why aren’t their any empowerment blogs for skinny ugly black dudes?? Just asking.) is not just a woman, but a FAT woman, and this has implications that transcend sexual attractiveness.

The truth is, fat chicks know they're sexy, and they don’t need some internet perv posting porn shots and blathering on about “curves” and “chubby chasing” to confirm that. The smart, confident bigger ladies, many of whom you see in this blog and on countless porn sites, realize that being sexy isn’t an issue. They can get dick any time they want. But when their size inhibits social interaction, when it causes people to underestimate their intelligence or motivation, when it creates a barrier that blocks opportunities that they rightfully deserve, it becomes a serious issue, an issue that will be virtually ignored if we keep congratulating ourselves for wanting to jump their bones.

This is the conflict that keeps me from posting on this blog, and ultimately the reason it will not continue. I am too introspective (read: neurotic) to just post my porn and have fun. I have to come to the realization that, because I want the same things that Kyla and women like her want, this blog is part of the problem.

Anywho… if you’re still here, I’d love to hear you thoughts about Kyla (her insane cuteness is up for discussion whether she likes it or not, btw), her post, my thoughts, etc.

And of course, you knew I was watching porn when I wrote this. Below is a fantastic scene that stars the beautiful Miss Fortune…

Later, Kids...